tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-270546698204459959.post3745876905207450604..comments2024-03-29T12:46:55.334+05:30Comments on Gerald D'Cunha: YES, I AM MY BEST FRIENDGerald D'Cunhahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10678233265231148842noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-270546698204459959.post-47383080305254509402012-02-03T13:53:27.984+05:302012-02-03T13:53:27.984+05:30Yes Shirley... it all boils down to our intentions...Yes Shirley... it all boils down to our intentions! <br /><br />If our intention are 'clean'... then, fear, anger ore envy fail to rule our peace... <br /><br />Let's, therefore, constantly try to get in touch with our intentions!<br /><br />Thanks,<br /><br />Love,<br /><br />GERRYGerald D'Cunhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10678233265231148842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-270546698204459959.post-64380233948078704702012-02-03T12:09:48.622+05:302012-02-03T12:09:48.622+05:30dear sir,
Reading this i feel much relaxed.All sou...dear sir,<br />Reading this i feel much relaxed.All souls leaving have their own anxieties in different forms,its not me alone who is facing it.I have learnt that more important is to keep our own intentions good n learn someway to drive away the ghosts residing under us.I feel much more confident to deal with my fears n anxieties after reading this.It has truly helped me.<br /><br />thank you sir,<br /> Shirley.shirleynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-270546698204459959.post-5324934207036697802012-02-01T15:26:44.727+05:302012-02-01T15:26:44.727+05:30Yes Pooja, u are right. In tough times, communicat...Yes Pooja, u are right. In tough times, communication is very difficult. That's why, perhaps, my communication with Natasha might sound like 'unrealistic' to some!<br /><br />To me, it is not.<br /><br />Pooja, in any form of love, we become vulnerable!<br /><br />Our need, if unexpressed and unvalidated, turns into our deep pain... and if this pain is not unattended to, it becomes poison.<br /><br />We are still growing-up, Pooja! It is okay; it is okay!!<br /><br />Love,<br /><br />GERRYGerald D'Cunhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10678233265231148842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-270546698204459959.post-63176148332340319682012-02-01T15:13:30.284+05:302012-02-01T15:13:30.284+05:30Dear Sir,
I knew you would reply instantly.
Belie...Dear Sir,<br />I knew you would reply instantly. <br />Believe me Sir in tough times the most difficult thing to do is communicate.. I can't do it for sure!! I feel so much short of words that I want to immediately enter my shell..But anyways, thanx felt so nice to speak to you thru ur blog!!<br />Take care Sir.<br />PoojaPooja Ashok Guptahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13758321341598814074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-270546698204459959.post-26763632003514289612012-02-01T14:45:36.865+05:302012-02-01T14:45:36.865+05:30Hey Pooja, I am happy that this post has stirred u...Hey Pooja, I am happy that this post has stirred u. <br /><br />Pooja, I hope, u must have realized after reading my post - in fact all my daily post - I write them to deal with my own dilemmas... to do away with my won cobwebs. <br /><br />Yes, I knew Natasha was going thru a tough time... and, she wanted to be alone... She had a need in her to be alone. At the same time, I was going thru my own tough time as I was yearning to hear it from her... My deep need to be told that was my source of sorrow. <br /><br />One years of age may separate we two. But, Pooja, the human needs are universal... Yes, sensitivities of people differ... <br /><br />If letting Natasha know my need to hear from her - so that it can help us walk light - had come from my good intention. Had I not expressed it before her, I would have taken more time to heal my wounds. And, she too. <br /><br />I hope, Natasha must have felt good after she communicated to me... and after I assured her about my respect and delight.<br /><br />We need to communicate Pooja... that's what I seriously feel. It helps to do away our pain... make us peaceful.<br /><br />After all, that's what matters in life, isn't it?<br /><br />Take care, Pooja,<br /><br />Thanks,<br /><br />Love,<br /><br />GERRYGerald D'Cunhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10678233265231148842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-270546698204459959.post-24711107831807376162012-02-01T12:36:09.531+05:302012-02-01T12:36:09.531+05:30Dear Sir,
Why do we need to communicate that we ne...Dear Sir,<br />Why do we need to communicate that we need "me time" when things have gone wrong with us? The people who love us why can't they understand by themselves that 'I need to be alone..I need to introspect'. You knew Natasha was going thru a rough patch again then why did you want her to respond and tell that she needed "me time".... <br /><br />You rightly said in your post and I truly believe it so "I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY LIFE". If I sow apple seeds I cannot expect to enjoy mango fruit. But it takes hell lot of pain and time to understand this small line..I have started to stop blaming all for whatever happened in my life..because I am responsible for me!! Thank you once again Sir for lifting my hamstring!! Cheers..<br />Yours,<br />PoojaPooja Ashok Guptahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13758321341598814074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-270546698204459959.post-5474767009504088152012-01-31T14:40:02.359+05:302012-01-31T14:40:02.359+05:30Yes Kumar, you are not alone in feeling so!
It is...Yes Kumar, you are not alone in feeling so!<br /><br />It is perfectly fine... as long as you are able to 'see' what is happening inside!<br /><br />It is also imp to keep our hearts clean!<br /><br />Thanks and happy that I met u thru my book...<br /><br />Love,<br /><br />GERRYGerald D'Cunhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10678233265231148842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-270546698204459959.post-31778731092785392492012-01-31T11:44:55.823+05:302012-01-31T11:44:55.823+05:30Dear Gerry,
I always used to wonder "Am I the...Dear Gerry,<br />I always used to wonder "Am I the only one who gets angry,gets emotional and is afraid". Thanks a lot Gerry for making it clear that it is all fine. After all, we are humans and not Robots and are bound to have these qualities. Feel much lighter now. The reason why I wrote "Vaachas chame" in my yesterday's sms was "Thanks once again for the Book because of which I could get connected to you"<br />BTW Kumar is now 51 yrs young.<br /><br />N.KumarKumarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04980340827632891846noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-270546698204459959.post-25590607219553152982012-01-31T11:18:29.631+05:302012-01-31T11:18:29.631+05:30Thanks Vishal for ur kind words...
Love,
GERRYThanks Vishal for ur kind words...<br /><br />Love,<br /><br />GERRYGerald D'Cunhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10678233265231148842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-270546698204459959.post-88224700664088883462012-01-31T09:41:16.694+05:302012-01-31T09:41:16.694+05:30Gerry, I am really amazed by the way you use all y...Gerry, I am really amazed by the way you use all your feelings to form something so sublime, each day! It leaves me inspired.<br /><br />Thank you, keep doing it!<br /><br />.. VishalAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-270546698204459959.post-10476673597166146842012-01-31T08:51:36.174+05:302012-01-31T08:51:36.174+05:30Yes Surekha... these feelings are there in us to h...Yes Surekha... these feelings are there in us to help us grow, make us reined souls...<br /><br />Glad, u liked the post...<br /><br />Do read regularly...<br /><br />Thanks,<br /><br />Love,<br /><br />GERRYGerald D'Cunhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10678233265231148842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-270546698204459959.post-1351115130643677922012-01-31T08:32:50.102+05:302012-01-31T08:32:50.102+05:30I do not know, why i have suddenly felt so at ease...I do not know, why i have suddenly felt so at ease with may own fear, anger and envy... I really did not know that they are there in my life to help me grow, make me a refined soul.<br /><br />Thanks a ton Gerry,<br /><br />May God Bless you.<br /><br />SurekhaSurekha Ramannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-270546698204459959.post-29315060518484367602012-01-30T17:10:24.601+05:302012-01-30T17:10:24.601+05:30Oh yes P.K.... we are all okay despite our huge hu...Oh yes P.K.... we are all okay despite our huge human flaws!<br /><br />Thanks,<br /><br />Love,<br /><br />GERALDGerald D'Cunhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10678233265231148842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-270546698204459959.post-21021853597296204942012-01-30T17:04:21.326+05:302012-01-30T17:04:21.326+05:30Liked the post immensely Gerald. Made me feel '...Liked the post immensely Gerald. Made me feel 'I am okay' despite all my flaws!<br /><br />With gratitude,<br /><br />... P.KAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-270546698204459959.post-51279877270668371132012-01-30T16:12:58.194+05:302012-01-30T16:12:58.194+05:30Thanks Jane... Glad the post touched you.
Do read...Thanks Jane... Glad the post touched you.<br /><br />Do read regularly...<br /><br />Love,<br /><br />GERRYGerald D'Cunhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10678233265231148842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-270546698204459959.post-90343387048400744212012-01-30T15:27:02.536+05:302012-01-30T15:27:02.536+05:30You make me cry in hope!!!
Thank you, Gerry, than...You make me cry in hope!!!<br /><br />Thank you, Gerry, thank you!<br /><br />-- JaneJANE MIRANDAnoreply@blogger.com