Gerald D'Cunha

"It is better to rise from life as from a banquet – neither thirsty nor drunken." —  Aristotle O prah Winfrey once said, “We can have it all; but, we can’t have it all at once .” Well, that has been the dilemma – the atma sankat – of almost everyone who wanted to ‘make it big’ - succeed, shine, become famous, become rich, Or, even get respected, loved, adored, worshipped, followed… Or, just wanted to go to work, like everyone else did, earn a moderate salary, keep the family afloat, juggling with finances all the while. Wherever you are - at the top, in the middle or at the bottom of your ladder – yes, the rule applies to all: You can have it all; but, you just can’t have it all at once ! The fixation with that ideal called ‘Success’ doesn’t spare most of us. When we have nothing, we want it all - name, fame, position, power and money… We want ‘security’ in life… And, therefore, we are frantically at it, all the time… hoping t...