THE PUDDLE AND THE PARTITION
“It’s not at all hard to understand a person;
It’s only hard to listen without bias.”
Criss Jami
It was
late in the night when I happened to read the heated debate on one of the WhatsApp
groups. It’s a group of fifteen of us… all friends and all educated. Apparently,
one of the group members had showered praises on our Prime Minister and hailed
him as the only leader who could deal with the current situation in the country
so efficiently. Immediately, another
member mocked at what was being just said and criticized the PM and the central
government for, what he called ‘a complete mess’ in the country. Suddenly, the floodgates
were thrown open… missiles being fired from either side of the border. I was surprised
to see one of our very quiet members, who seldom opened his mouth, firing his missiles
from one of the sides…
I stood neutral, a mute spectator, rather… and watched the
fun!
Of course, I had a very strong view about the current state
of affairs… I, too, could have easily joined one of the two camps. But, I chose
to stay out of this late-night battle…
The reason was quite simple…
Essentially all of us – I said ‘all’ – reacted from our preconceived
ideas – our prejudices. None of us was interested in comprehending the gravity
and magnitude of the situation. We were all desperately, and blindly, either glorifying
or condemning the government. To put it in the familiar lingo, we were either
doing ‘andh bhakti’ or ‘andh bashing’ of PM and the government.
So, when such was the state of debate, I thought, I would rather not open my
mouth…
And, good, I didn’t. For, it all turned out very ugly!
Imagine this: We were good friends and we were educated. None
of us would ever meet our PM or his political opponents ever in our life, leave
alone getting a reward for our ‘bhakti’ or ‘bashing’. On the other hand,
we knew, that we and our families would have to interact almost on a daily basis…
Yet, we seemed willing to ruin our friendship for an idiotic cause!
That group of fifteen of us, which I have mentioned above, is
only symbolic… It’s a metaphor for human bias. At heart of our hearts, we all
know that we are all brothers and sisters… we are all neighbors and friends…
fellow humans… Inter-dependent and driven by our simple dreams and aspirations…
We know, deep down in our bosoms, that hatred and enmity make us monstrous… and
still we indulge in them… Hindu-Muslim, India-Pakistan…
Joseph Stalin, who was either intensely loved or intensely hated,
once said: “History shows, that there are no invincible armies.”
Still, we fight!
Just today, I have given a small assignment to two little
boys…
They have to watch this video with their family members, have a
discussion over it, and, then, write what is the take away… Not to the members
of their families, but to them (kids) personally!
I am curious to listen to my two little boys!
GERALD D’CUNHA
Pic.: www.istockphoto.com
Video: Google India
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