WHAT IS THE REAL STORY?
Other person does not irritate me… No, he cannot! No behavior of another person… no words… whatever those words may be, and however they may have been uttered… can irritate me. The words have no power to hurt me, upset me… and make me angry. Someone’s behavior just can’t do it either... On the contrary, I may end up enjoying – getting a lot pampered – by what is being said by him… and, his behavior! If I like the person, I really do not mind his words. I know he means well… and, that’s it. Not much is needed in the form of explanation or justification or clarification. The fact that I like the innate goodness of the person supersedes everything else… I suspend my judgment… I cease to study his intentions…or motives… I drop my need to control him or manipulate him… I know he is a good person… means well for me… I respect him, honor him and love him for what he is… So, when I respect him, honor him an...