WHERE THE SHOE HURTS THE MOST
We don't do it with outsiders. We do it - and do it again and again - with our own spouses. In our relationships ... the most significant area of our life. We know, where the shoe hurts our partners the most. Because, we have come so close to each other. No one else knows the place, no one else knows what would make us break down - cry, depressed, go crazy, even angry and violent ... except our partners. And, when we shouldn't do it - we do it. We say something, do something - which we know our partners cannot handle, towards which they are vulnerable - and hurt them. We know where it hurts the most for him, or her, and cause that hurt. Today, this simple thought came to me: Do I know these areas where my wife gets hurt the most? Do I hurt her, consciously, again and again ... by those words and actions? Do I sincerely apologise when I hurt her? Do I make my promise - to be more careful and caring next time? How important is our relationship to me, its quality? Which are those ...