'THE DOG I FEED THE MOST... WINS"
The only way to improve my relationship with another person is by constantly thinking well about that person. And, its opposite, too, is equally true: the only way to ruin my relationship with him is by constantly thinking ill about him. How we constantly think about the people in our lives - shapes the kind of relationship we, eventually, end up raising. The moment I hire an employee, I have a choice to make: to groom him as a very productive asset of my organization or as a counter-productive liability. The same holds true about my children and spouse… The choice has to be made whether I need an asset in my life or a liability… Whether I want healthy relationships with them or unhealthy ones. Often, we don’t realize how, silently and relentlessly, we work against our own interest… How we keep nursing the thoughts of dislike and ill-will about someone, continuously, and end up seeing, one day, a deadly monster! The truth is: this monster is ou...