AS BEAUTIFUL AS I WANT IT TO BE...
Many a times, I wonder as to why, at one time, I am willing to accept and accommodate another person in spite of his or her huge flaws… and, why, at another time, I am put off by his or her very minor blunders! Yes, I do find in me the strength, grace and space to accommodate the other person’s flaws, when I am overwhelmed by what is good and special in him. When I choose to see – acknowledge, honor, respect and celebrate – what is good and special in him, nothing else seems to matter. My mind drops its judging, my eyes overlook the ugly side, and my heart simply rejoices the presence of another fellow-traveler along my life. Let me tell you this: when I choose, consciously, to acknowledge, honor and celebrate the specialness in other person, a silence comes to reside in my heart… It is peace… It is an amazing experience. It makes me feel safe, secure and loved… It makes me feel worthwhile, confident and rich! On the other hand, when I a...