WHEN I HAVE WATCHED MY FEARS STANDING ON TOP OF THE MOUNTAIN
Pic.: Aparna Khanolkar Sheth “When you focus on being a blessing, God makes sure that you are always blessed in abundance.” - Joel Osteen O ne of the worst things, sometimes, I do towards my own well-being is: I try to prove someone how much I have done to him or her. Let me tell you this: I have never ever succeeded in proving this to anyone... On the contrary, I have only come out badly bruised attempting to do it. The urge to prove my contribution towards another stems from my own insecurity and fear. Had I contributed through my love, I wouldn’t have landed in a state like this... That is, with this need to prove. So, now and then, when I indulge in it, I can sense, so clearly, how it feels and what it does to my well-being and self-confidence... It drains my energy, leaves me with a feeling of being a loser in life... Yes, it does. Anger and arguments don’t change the reality even a bit. At best – rather, at worst – they onl...