THE PRINCIPLE OF THE LARGER GOOD
Long back,
when I had first come across the phrase, ‘The larger good’, I remember I liking
it immensely. I also remember deciding to make it one of the driving forces
behind all my future actions.
Yes, I have been consciously striving to go about
my life, carrying out almost every thing I do keeping the principle of ‘the
larger good’ in my heart. I said, I have been ‘consciously striving’… earnestly
striving. I know how powerful this principle is… how empowering… how
constructive.
However, as another human being, sometimes, I
find it difficult to stick to this principle. I tend to overlook it, and, invariably
the consequence is: a feeling of isolation, low confidence and regret and even
anger. Yes, it does happen to me every time I tend to place ‘my good’ before
the ‘larger good’.
I have realized this, very clearly, by now:
The larger good includes my good.
But, my good
need not – and, mostly, doesn’t –
include the larger good.
Thus, if the larger good includes my good,
is it
not sensible for me
to abide by this principle...
to abide by this principle...
as I go about my life?
It is. It is.
This morning, a hilarious – but a commonplace –
episode drilled this belief, once again, in my head.
It was the morning-time rush. My autowala, suddenly, took the auto to the
side, stretched his neck out and started yelling at another autowala, who had three passengers
inside – one lady and two small children. I was surprised as to why my autowala was yelling and abusing without
any evident provocation. By now, the other autowala
was moving a hairline-distance from my auto… I knew, we were headed for some
trouble if this continued further in that morning insane rush. The other autowala was out of his head and literally
ready to pounce on mine… I made a gentle attempt to pacify both of them… But,
the emotions had so clouded their minds, that, now, they would not leave each other...
come what may. The lady in the other auto began to shout at her autowala. “Drop this madness,” I heard
her screaming. The two little children looked very frightened… and, I found
myself asserting more before my autowala.
But, he seemed to hear only one voice – his; he seemed to see only one good – his!
I prayed to St. Christopher, the Patron saint of
travelers! “Please take care of us,” I sent my petition. He was merciful enough,
for, a minute later, while two young men on a motor bike were crossing the
road, these two autowalas, who were
unwilling to give up their petty personal matter, invited their trouble I was
all along fearing. The bikers were thrown off the bike and the other auto overturned,
the lady and the two little children inside it! In no time, a mob came forward
and helped the passengers, particularly the little children. The lady, now, was
uncontrollable. She told the mob about the madness the two drivers were
possessed of… I got off my auto, and along with others, helped the bikers. The
two young men, by now, knew what to do: one of them pulled the other autowala out of his auto, and the another
dragged mine. Many others joined and gave them what the 'blind-men', rightfully deserved:
Left, right and center!
The lady and the kids got into another auto… I had hardly some distance to manage… So, I
walked, thanking St. Christopher for the timely intervention!
This might
not be a very mature story to drive home the meaning of ‘the principle of the
larger good’. But, these two atuowalas had ignored what was good for
their respective passengers, and other people who drove on the road… They were solely
consumed by what was good for them. Their good did not include our good. But,
our good – the larger good - most certainly, included theirs.
I still don’t have a clue as to what was their
fight all about!
GERALD D’CUNHA
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