THE SKY IS FALLING!!!
Mr.
Harwadekar is a very dear well-wisher of mine. He is about 85. The night before
last, he had observed me talking to a Police Officer.
It was our Society matter and
about 20 of us – including Mr. Harwadekar – had been to the Police station
regarding some dispute. The particular Police officer was absolutely biased and
was trying to intimidate us. Our twenty-member delegation consisted of all respected,
well-educated and cultured members and I was there, that night, heading the
delegation as the Society Chairman. We were right and had all the moral and
legal authority to present our case. I began on a very courteous note – gently,
yet assertively. But, when I saw the Officer still being biased, I used my
emotions… got charged-up – not angry or agitated – passionately charged-up.
And, I spoke very strongly with that officer. The good men around me gave me
tremendous amount of inner strength and I did not feel the fear or anxiety even
for a while.
In the end, the Officer came
around… mellowed down… He changed his track.
We came out, a lot satisfied. Justice
was done to us.
Last night, Mr. Harwadekar, who
had witnessed my passionate presentation, told me,
“Gerry, I was worried about you, your health… You should not be so excited.”
“Gerry, I was worried about you, your health… You should not be so excited.”
“Yes sir, I should not; you are
right,” I admitted before my concerned well-wisher. “I did not get sleep for
long, last night.”
“Yes, that’s what was wrong,” Mr.
Harwadekar said immediately, “You should not allow your emotions to control you;
you should control your emotions.”
I remained silent.
“I know that sir… I know it very
well,” I told my well-wisher in my mind, “But, I have been finding it very
difficult to separate my emotions from my actions… at least, so far.”
“Gerry, even if the sky is falling on
you,” Mr. Harwadekar advised me lovingly, “Slowly look up and say, Oh, sky… Sky
is falling.”
“Yes, and don’t throw things and
run in panic just when you hear someone screaming ‘Sky is falling’…!” Anil, another young well-wisher of mine, who
was sitting next to us, added.
I liked this imagery: The sky is
falling.
It will fall on my head if I stand still, right here...
and, it will fall on my head
even if I run, to save myself, at 100-MPH speed!
So, why drain your energy before you die.?
Look up to the falling sky and say,
“Wow!
What a rare sight!”
We won the fight last night… But,
I lost my sleep!
Many years ago, one afternoon, I
had called up my residence number from my office. My son was six-year old then,
and he picked up the phone.
“Son, can you give the phone to mom?” I sweetly
asked the little fellow. It was some urgent matter.
“No dad,” my son hurriedly replied,
“She can’t move!”
“Why? What happened to her, dear?”
I panicked.
“I am drawing her sketch; she can’t
move!” The young Picasso banged the phone down!
The sky did fall, that afternoon…
and I was running. I was asking my little son, “What happened to mom?” And, he
was telling me, “Just chill!”
My wife had laughed…
My son drew
a lovely sketch of his mother... and he called it, “Just Chill”!
I called it - ‘The Sky Is Falling’!
GERALD D’CUNHA
The image used in this Post is by Ashok Ahuja. He is a professional Photographer and a very dear friend of mine. He is also one of the founder members of The Dawn Club, and, along with his gifted-artist wife, Sudha, has been helping me, and the Club, right from its inception.
Comments
It reminded me of my nursery rhyme: "Fire in the jungle... run,run, run!!!"
Great!
Vipul
Its truly very touching and so meaningful!
what a way to show us the different side!
Thats what seniors are for...They may not have strength in their body but the vision and sight theyu have,compensates for it.
If The unique mixture of energy of youth and experince and wisdom of of our elders can be created..
The cocktail would be so productive..
The sky can be managed :)
Thanks Vipul,
Love,
GERRY
There are two kinds of old men in this good, bad world!
And, u will have no difficulty recognizing them!
Thanks Ashish,
Love,
GERRY
How it is that every article you write has a relation in my own life some way or the other? One of my friends always tell me "you create anger during an argument but don't get angry" but I found it extremely difficult to separate the two.
Thanks for the fantastic article.
God bless you.
N.Kumar
We are connected, in deed, Kumar!!
Jesus Christ is epitome of Love. But, Bible gives enough instances of his anger, even of the God Almighty Himself. The Hindu scriptures tell us about God's anger...
You mean well for the other... then, your emotions - whether anger, fear, or jealousy - they don't matter. Just mean well. That's holistic anger!
Let's be human, the real ones!
Love,
GERRY