THE CHINESE WHISPERS


When our little-ones get bored during their two-hour PD sessions, they want something to light-up their hearts... Some short movie, some songs-videos which can make them dance, some quiz, riddles or jokes and, mostly, some games. Because I want them to become leaders, overcome their shyness, I always encourage them to come out with their own stress-buster ideas. Believe me, they come out with plenty... It's always games galore... Right from Dumb-charades to Chinese Whispers.

They enjoy.... I, too.

Last afternoon, while they were playing 'Chinese Whispers', I wondered if they knew that's how almost all of us went about communicating in our daily lives. There were about twenty-five of those little ones, all below age 13. The little lady in the first bench here whispered something into the little-fellow's ears, next to her. The message got transmitted from ear to ear till it reached the last brat's ears there on the other side of the room. It was time for 'breaking' the news.... "Kareena hated Katrina," announced the brat with a grin. "What?" the lady who first planted the news exclaimed, "It was 'A dull Saturday'! "

The room had turned into a zoo, by now... each one was trying to tell what he had heard from the other!


Well, there is nothing 'Chinese' about this game... that is played by kids all over the world... And, kids we all are, you see! We get our news and messages like this way - from the grapevine... through the broken telephone wires... We hear only what our eardrums filter... We pass only what our lips wish to whisper... 



We rarely bother to check the 'truth'... 

Who cares... It's fun, anyway!


But, at the end of the day, the kids were happy, full of laughter... It was a dull Saturday... till someone broke  the sensational news that Kareena hated Katrina!

Who cares, who hates whom... as long as one is able to laugh it out, and loud... and, laugh even more because that's how we go about our daily communication...

The Chinese must be laughing at us - we fools!


GERALD D'CUNHA

Pic.: Malabika Ganguly













Comments

Prashant Kumar said…
very, very true sir. Kumar
April 28, 2013 at 3:13 PM
Pooja Shetty said…
It's fun!!!!! Pooja
April 28, 2013 at 3:16 PM
Anonymous said…
Our normal way of communication!!! Vishal
April 28, 2013 at 3:38 PM
Usha Suvarna said…
very meaningful. Thanks. Usha
April 29, 2013 at 10:38 AM
Aditi Chakraborty said…
just played this wid my building children and wasnt it fun .....nice write up Sir regds Aditi
April 29, 2013 at 1:59 PM
Savita N Kumar said…
so true we are so unaware that we are playing this game everyday
April 29, 2013 at 7:14 PM
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