HAPPINESS


I do not understand
Why, so often, I  search for happiness there - ‘outside’…
In another person,
In another place,
In another job,
In another moment…
And, in another life.


I do not understand
Why don’t I find happiness ‘here – ‘inside’…
In my own heart,
In this very place,
In this very job,
In this very moment…
And, in this very life, itself.

GERALD D'CUNHA

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