NOT A NANO-SECOND MORE...
A couple of days back, I had sent off my final-year B'Com students. It being the last day, I had spoken emotionally and wished them well in life. They had stayed back in the class even after I had left, and, I wanted them to be with each other there in my class, one for the last time.
After an hour or so, all of them had left. Just before that, they
came to my office to thank me, once again, and bid the final good-bye.
Later on the day, when I had walked into the
class, I was surprised to see the white board filled to the edge with messages
from my students. Most of them were my own pet phrases… dozens of them. Yes, they were my pet lines… I would use them
in the class, every day, over and over again… to make my point, to motivate
them, stir them, to make them think, to make them amend, to leave on them the
impact. And, I would do it through out the year… and, for some of them, for years! Yes, the same words, the same phrases… and, the same passion!
When I stood there in the class, all alone, and
started reading them, one by one, I couldn’t hold back my smile… even the tears!
The students had gone. I was still there… The
words were still there on the board, but I knew that was just the photo copy of
the words imprinted on their hearts and minds.
Over thirty-three years or so…!
One phrase was missing on the board, that noon. “God
has given only twenty-four hours to each one of us… Not a nano-second more, my
young friends!” Yes, then, I would hammer it with even more authority, “Even
Bill Gates has been given only so much… even Amitabh Bachchan... even President Obama!”
That was - when they came out with their worn-out excuse,
“I found no time!”
No time for doing home work!
No time to prepare for the test!
No time to complete your project!
No time to … !
Look, my students had, mysteriously, forgotten about my
pet phrase about ‘No time’!
“We always find time to do what we like, what we
love, dear!” I would remind them. “What we don’t like, what we don’t love… we
tend to postpone.”
They would listen to me with rapt attention… though
it did not mean, my words had transformed them! But, they would listen with a lot
of sensitivity… and, that was exactly what I would be expecting from them. My
job was to stir them, sensitize them and sow the seeds… and, I would be hopeful
that the seeds would sprout when the time was right.
“What you postpone creates anxiety,” I would
continue, “The anxiety brings fear… and, fear cripples u, breaks your
self-confidence.”
Yes, in this world,
whosoever has achieved
anything worth talking about,
has been done by him only with those
twenty-four
hours of the day…
Not a nano-second more!”
Any question on this, my students?
Any doubt?
That afternoon, I simply stood there and read all
their messages… my pet phrases. And, I smiled in my mind, “Poor kids! They must’ve
run out of time… here, too!”
Just some nano-seconds before I started typing
this post, someone asked me with all the seriousness, “Gerry, where do you find
time to write so much, every day?”
I had only smiled and said what I had been
telling all my young students, all these years, “We always find time to do what
we like, what we love!”
The moment this person left, I said, “Chalo, let
me take off from here…”
It is one more day… and, one more post.
GERALD D’CUNHA
Pics.: Vivek D'Cunha
Comments
i read ur blog.. u write so well...... ... i particularly liked this one.. as my students too have the same excuses "no time, ma'am"... :)
great writing..
take care
Well, now that I know... welcome to my world! Wonderful world! U will never age, Gloria dear, I bet!
Teach with love, teach with passion... You will spend a happy life!
So, good to hear u like my blog... Keep reading daily... tell your friends and students too... Do comment. I need help, dear.
Wishing u all the best in life,
Love,
Gerry
Its just the matter of likeness..
u write wonderfully sir..
Yes, if u write from ur heart, u write well!
Love,
GERRY
A fabulous post. I have read a phrase "the only thing that grows more when you share is - knowledge". And you have been doing a wonderful job by sharing it all through 30+ years.
Kumar N
Love,
GERRY